Adulting achievements
After yesterday’s musings on adulting, I found myself looking for various resources that indicate what some components of adulting are. I found my way to the syllabus for Adulting: Coming of Age in 21st Century America at Georgia Tech, which assigned some videos from the YouTube channel How to Adult. As I started to skim the video titles, I realized that there are, in fact, many things I am quite adult enough to handle. I thought I’d make a list, just to help me remember how very grown up I am on the days when I eat cake for breakfast and my child is the only person who I can manage to dress appropriately for the occasion and weather.
I can:
- do my taxes
- do laundry
- furnish a kitchen
- cook
- write a resume
- succeed in a job interview
- open a bank account
- bake
- declutter & organize
- quit a job
- write a cover letter
- open a retirement account
- write thank you notes (though of course I don't as often as baby boomers and their parents would like)
- buy a house
- get a new car insurance policy
- start a new job
- make coffee (three different ways!)
- meal plan
- party plan
- host a party
- manage a pregnancy
- care for a child (including feeding, changing, bathing, clothing, entertaining)
- choose a doctor
- enroll in health insurance
- use a library
- send mail
- take out a loan
- repay a loan
- use public transportation
- use a slow cooker
- unclog a toilet (including using a toilet snake/auger!)
And this is just a small sampling, based on the How to Adult video channel! I can also:
- take my own measurements
- purchase clothes that fit and make me feel confident
- get a mortgage
- connect utilities
- pay bills
- buy a car
- make tea (in a bag or loose leaf!)
- assert myself in interactions with a doctor
- replace the items from a stolen wallet
- drive
- put gas in a car
- buy a plane ticket
- navigate an airport
- use a pressure cooker
- use a microwave
- use a toaster oven
- use an oven
- handwash dishes
- load and run a dishwasher
And of course there are many more things I can do!
Probably we each need to cut ourselves a break sometimes and recognize how awesome we are and all the stuff we can do.