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Whoops I forgot what it means to be an educator in August. #Blaugust

I had grand dreams for Blaugust. I was going to not only write blog posts, but also read blog posts. I set up Feedly again! And the month isn’t over, so I may yet do some stuff.

But I need to recognize that as an educator working on a traditional schedule in the US, August is a month where anything that’s not for work is going to lose priority. And I only feel like doing fun things that don’t require my creativity.

So. I will only prioritize writing my own posts and they will happen when they happen.

This is a Blaugust intro post!

Hello friends. I’ve signed up for Blaugust. As you might guess from the name, it’s a challenge that takes place in August, where you blog. The original challenge was to blog every day in August. Challenges that require daily activity don’t work with my life, so I’ve set the bar quite low. According to Krikket, who is one of the people leading the charge on Blaugust this year, you get a Bronze award if you post 5 times in the month of August. So that’s my goal. 5 times, which I’m mapping to about one post a week, with an extra post squeezed in there somewhere. According to the official Blaugust blogroll, I am not a first-time participant this year. Hmm. Let me do a quick search of my blog… I can’t find anything, but who can say? Who can remember what I’ve blogged? It’s been a long time blogging. Belghast, the founder of Blaugust, wrote an intro post as his first post for Blaugust so I thought I would do likewise. Maybe lots of new people are stopping by? So hello! Welcome! I’m Kimberly. I have also sometimes been known on the Internet as Kiba Rika or Kiba. I’ve had lots of various other handles over the years, but those are the main two ways people know me. I am not Kim. Please don’t call me Kim because I will think you are talking to someone else. I’m not sure why it bothers me to be called Kim, it just does. Like Belghast, I was born in that Xennial Oregon Trail generation sweet spot. We had an analog childhood and a digital young adulthood. Or at least, I did. Really a digital adolescence for me, but my dad is an early adopter so I’m a bit unlike my age-group peers. Also like Belghast, I started this blog in/around 2009. Archives older than that are imported from elsewhere, because I have had more blogs than I can remember. For a while I had topical ones. My first blog was a personal blog, hand-coded in HTML and CSS, hosted on some old free webhost like envy.nu or something. I had a Xanga dedicated to movie and other reviews and one for my poetry. I had a LiveJournal. (Technically still do.) I’ve had blogs about crochet, theater, video games, and I don’t know what all else. But eventually I decided to just put all the things here. I’ve been extremely online for at least a quarter-century, which is why I identify as an escribitionist. This blog has had shifts in focus as my life has, so its archives reflect that. I’ve spent A LOT of time in school, so often it will be about that, especially getting my MS and PhD in Library Science. I also have been book blogging since 2007, so you’ll find a lot of book reviews in the archives, for books released as recently as this spring, and even a few interviews with authors if you go back far enough. I’m an elementary school librarian and my students are big fans of the graphic novel Amulet. It’s really fun to be able to tell them that I interviewed Kazu Kibuishi when Amulet was first published. I blog a lot about dealing with chronic illness, too. I’ve got a pile of diagnoses and they make me variably disabled, so sometimes I have a lot of energy and almost no pain, but other times I am in very bad pain and it’s a lot of work just to get out of bed. I write about how that feels and dealing with doctors. For work, as I mentioned, I am an elementary school librarian. I work with the first through fourth graders at an independent, secular Quaker school. I don’t write about that a lot lately, but I’m not sure why. Maybe because I’m just too tired? It’s a half-time job but it eats up full-time energy. In the spring I told my supervisor that my long-term goal/wish is to actually use the other half of what would be a normal person’s week for something other than recovering from the energy expenditure at work. I’m going into my second year in this job, which I love. I do help kids choose what books to read and help them find more books like books they’ve already loved, but I also collaborate with teachers to provide them rich resources to support student learning. One of my hopes is to do more instruction moving forward, maybe embed some research instruction into the work the teachers are doing so students see the skills in context rather than isolated. Last year I pulled together resources for fourth grade classes on several different forms of government, including finding examples of each form, and I learned a ton that way. Being a librarian is a great gig if you love to learn, because anytime you help someone else you’re learning something yourself, too. In addition to this job, I’ve also been a middle school librarian, academic researcher, university outreach public communications specialist/managing editor, and Latin teacher. In my time when I don’t work, I love to read and play both video and tabletop games. I’ve been a theater person and an improv comedy cult member (only kind of joking, read Bossypants) but haven’t done either of those in almost 10 years. I live with my almost-9-year-old son M, who attends the school where I work (and did even before I got the job there), and his dad/my spouse, W. W and I met doing theater when we were very young (I was in high school and he was in college) and have been together ever since. If you find someone awesome that young, you’re super lucky, and I am. The three of us have a cat named Midnight, who is a smol boy (under 6 lbs full-grown, the vet’s not worried about it) and very fluffy. We live in an area with multiple universities and a thriving local food scene, where farms that were once focused on producing tobacco now grow incredibly delicious produce. We live near our parents and siblings. Big sister/eldest daughter is my longest-standing identity and I’m not gonna lie, it’s exhausting. But I do love my people. So that’s me. What else would you like to know?

Swatching my little fabric stash

In her Intro to Fabrics lesson, Brooks Ann links to an article she wrote for Threads Magazine called How and Why to Swatch Fabrics. She includes swatch cards in this article, so I printed some up and went to work swatching my little fabric stash.

None of these are fabrics I’ll be using during the class, but it’s good to have a complete catalog and to get some practice ahead of the swatches I’ll be looking at for the class.

First up, a couple of quilting fabrics I used for my first sewing projects with my new machine (I think I got it in 2020):

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The these are both woven cotton, one with a blue moth print and one with a seafoam green background with white manatees on it. I used the first to make napkins and the second to make a pillow.

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The next two fabrics I bought for making pillows, too, but so far I’ve only made one. These are also quilting cottons. One is a black background with Pokémon in white circles, which I used for the pillow I posted about earlier. The other has dragons and white stars on a navy background. I’m planning to make a pillow for my sister with this one.

Auto-generated description: A scrapbook page features descriptions and swatches of two fabrics, one with a celestial pattern with Jack Skellington’s head and the other with tarot card designs.

The last couple of swatches are a celestial Jack Skellington quilting cotton I’m planning to use to make my sister a pillow and an interlock knit tarot card print I’m planning to use to make myself a maxi skirt based on the Brit + Co Sewing 101 class instructions.

📚 Book Review: Once Upon You & Me by Timothy Janovsky

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Once Upon You and Me by Timothy Janovsky is a contemporary romance. On the closed door/open door/in the room/in the bed heat scale, this book puts you in the bed with the main characters. Here’s the publisher’s description of the book:

When Taylor Frost’s boss, Amy, flies him across the country to prep for her daughter’s sweet sixteen at the Storybook Endings Resort in the Catskills, the solo mission is well within his wheelhouse. Taylor is excellent at his job—except, he’s probably not supposed to flirt with the resort’s mountain man of a manager, Ethan Golding. Because the rugged older man is also the birthday girl’s father, aka Amy’s ex-husband. Oops.

For Ethan, his divorce seemed like the bad ending to his romantic story. And now, making his daughter’s sweet sixteen dreams come true is the closest he’ll get to the kind of magic happiness in fairy tales. Until adorable Taylor has him wondering if maybe this is just the beginning of a more erotic kind of bedtime story…

The only problem is Amy. And how very not okay she’d be with the chemistry between her assistant and her ex.

If only forbidden flings ever led to happily-ever-afters…

What I loved

I always love Timothy Janovsky’s characters, and Taylor and Ethan are two more delightful guys I loved watching fall in love. Ethan has ADHD that’s only recently been diagnosed. He’s spent a lot of his life feeling like his challenges with executive function are moral failings, and especially like his ex-wife Amy saw them that way. He’s a dad who lives on the opposite coast from his daughter, which breaks his heart a little all the time. He’s bi which sets him up for frustrations when he tries to date, as the men he meets are always surprised by this and often aren’t comfortable dating someone who is also attracted to women. He is deeply lonely.

Taylor is the second oldest kid in a family with many siblings. His older brother took off young and his parents are inattentive and flakey, which leaves him as the primary caretaker for all his sibs. He’s very good at taking care of people. He’s been working as Amy’s assistant for three years, waiting for a promotion, and quietly making sure she has everything she needs to keep her business running smoothly. But it seems like no one ever takes care of him.

In my favorite romances, the people in the relationship each are able to be exactly what the other person needs. Taylor is able to meet Ethan’s ways of coping with ADHD with compassion. Ethan shows Taylor that he deserves to be cared for as much as he cares for others. I love how these two are like puzzle pieces specifically carved to fit together.

I also love the way fairy tales suffuse the story. The resort where it’s set is inspired by fairy tales. Taylor and Ethan read fairy tales together. Taylor starts out their time together staying in the Snow White Cottage. I’m sure Timothy Janovsky chose this fairy tale to highlight her specifically. I’m choosing to imagine it’s because he is a Disney fan and Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs was the first Disney fairy tale feature adaptation.

What I wanted more of

There’s nothing Timothy Janovsky left out. I would just be happy to spend more time with these guys.

What I need to warn you about.

Timothy Janovsky includes warnings at the beginning of the book, so check those out. There is biphobia and some judgmental responses to Ethan’s ADHD. There’s also discussion of Ethan’s father living with MS that has progressed so far as to limit his mobility.

Who should read this book

People looking for a low-conflict, high heat contemporary where two charming men connect and complete each other’s lives.

Book: Once Upon You and Me Author: Timothy Janovsky Publisher: Afterglow Books by Harlequin Publication Date: April 29, 2025 Pages: 288 Age Range: Adult Source of Book: ARC via NetGalley, Library

📚 Book Review: A Tropical Rebel Gets the Duke by Adriana Herrera

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A Tropical Rebel Gets the Duke by Adriana Herrera is a historical romance set mostly in Paris during the 1889 Exposition Universelle, about a Dominican-Mexican doctor and the duke who falls for her. On the closed door/open door/in the room/in the bed heat scale, this book puts you in the bed with the main characters. Here’s the publisher’s description of the book:

Physician Aurora Montalban Wright takes risks in her career, but never with her heart. Running an underground women’s clinic exposes her to certain dangers, but help arrives in the unexpected form of the infuriating Duke of Annan. Aurora begrudgingly accepts his protection, then promptly finds herself in his bed. New to his role as a duke, Apollo César Sinclair Robles struggles to embrace his position. With half of society waiting for him to misstep and the other half looking to discredit him, Apollo never imagined that his enthralling bedmate would become his most trusted adviser. Soon, he realizes the rebellious doctor could be the perfect duchess. But Aurora won’t give up her independence, and her secrets make her unsuitable for the aristocracy. When a dangerous figure from their past returns to threaten them, Apollo whisks Aurora away to his villa in the French Riviera. Far from the reproachful eye of Parisian society, can Apollo convince Aurora that their bond is stronger than the forces keeping them apart?

What I loved

This is the third book in Adriana Herrera’s Las Léonas trilogy, and I have loved every book in the series. Herrera gives us three best friends, each having her own adventure. By the time it’s Aurora’s turn to be the heroine, her friends Luz Alana and Manuela have found their own partners and the circle of the three friends has expanded to include Luz Alana’s husband, Evan, and Manuela’s partner, Cora. Evan and Cora often serve as a Greek chorus for the hero, Apollo, and it’s delightful.

Apollo himself is an incredibly dreamy hero. Aurora has been running herself ragged tending to patients both night and day. She has neglected her own needs. Apollo notices her taking care of others and not taking care of herself, and takes it upon himself to take care of her.

Aurora is a fierce doctor, the first woman licensed to practice medicine in Mexico, collaborating with colleagues in Paris to establish a network of women’s clinics. She dedicates herself to her work. Her growing attraction to Apollo gets her out of her head and into her body.

Adriana Herrera always gives us a delightful cast of supporting characters and here she gives us Brazilian boxing club owner Gilberto and his Vietnamese partner Minh, whose mother farms lavender in the French countryside. Apollo’s body man, Jean-Louis, is a giant who Apollo appoints to escort Aurora on dangerous night patient visits but whom Aurora quickly wins over to doing what she asks more than what Apollo does.

I feel like I’m not doing the book justice here.

Adriana Herrera writes love scenes that tie the emotional and physical relationships of the main characters to each other in a way that both titillates and tugs at heartstrings. The more Aurora and Apollo get to know each other, the more each of them impresses the other with their commitment to helping the people they serve: patients in Aurora’s case, and tenants in the duchy in Apollo’s case.

Romance readers love a broken character, and I especially love the way Aurora is broken, the way she is constantly fighting to prove her worth while also caring deeply for her patients.

What I wanted more of

I found myself lingering over this text rather than devouring it, I think because I didn’t want Las Léonas to end. There’s nothing I wish Adriana Herrera would have included in this book that she didn’t. I just hope she keeps writing historicals.

What I need to warn you about.

The clinics where Aurora works offer services that were perfectly legal in Paris in 1889, but also those that were not, especially contraceptive services and abortions. Abortions and abortion aftercare are discussed in the book. Herrera has a note about this at the beginning of the book, so definitely look at an ebook preview or the first few pages of a physical copy to read that. Aurora is put in physical danger and there is reference to poor treatment at the hands of a peer in her past as well as reference to the same peer continuing this behavior in the book’s present.

Who should read this book

Lovers of historical romance. People who want a historical romance that isn’t set in England or during the Regency. Readers who want to see fierce Afro-Latina women defying the limitations society tries to put on them and finding love. Readers who love found family.

Book: A Tropical Rebel Gets the Duke Author: Adriana Herrera Publisher: Canary Street Press Publication Date: February 4, 2025 Pages: 432 Age Range: Adult Source of Book: ARC via NetGalley, Purchase

There is no room of one's own. So what do we do?

Everybody writes about being the mother of a baby. But what about being the mother of a big kid? You are this new version of yourself, integrated with the old, out of the early fog, free of the strange combination of portentousness and tedium. But you are still postpartum, you are eternally postpartum. You matresced, you are no longer becoming a mother but you are a mother. What is unique at this stage? Are you still annihilated? Is your life still kintsugi? Do you live in fragments? I think yes, but the fragments are bigger now. You have more time for yourself but you remain available, vulnerable, to interruption at any moment. You still steal your moments for self from sleep. The quiet of the sleeping house is still a precious time.

Crucial Track for June 3, 2025

"The Book of Love" by The Magnetic Fields

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What song would you use to describe your current relationship?

The first song that came to mind was Riki Lindhome's "Middle Age Love," because we've been together for almost 27 years and still find each other super attractive. But I wanted a less explicit choice so I picked "The Book of Love." It's long and boring, like our relationship might look to people outside of it, but I love so much of what my husband does.

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On the value of the backlist and its relationship to "scenius"

I had two newsletters in my inbox today that talked about the value of diving into an author’s complete works or backlist, A Love Letter to the Single Author Course by Ravynn K. Stringfield and Your next best friend by Austin Kleon.

Stringfield says,

To follow an author across the trajectory of their life, see how their styles and ideals changed over time, watch them venture into different forms and genres, was captivating. It was like the most immersive psychology class you could imagine. Under the guidance of the right professor and with appropriate supplementary materials—not just secondary sources, but writing by others that perhaps the author in question may have been inspired by or inspired with their own work—important cultural moments could be rendered in sharp relief. Literary disputes made as lively as any reality TV beef. Portraits of artistic communities shone. So much could be gleaned from taking an intentional walk through just one person’s corpus.

Kleon says,

We spend a lot of our lives as readers on the search for new books. But how many great books are already waiting for us on our shelves? How many favorite authors would we form deep relationships with if we simply read or re-read a few more of their books?

In the Discord community for the Fated Mates podcast, I’ve seen several of us do this with a particular author. Especially rewarding for me has been reading Sarah MacLean’s adult (as opposed to young adult) novels, watching her grow from writing the Regency ballrooms that populate so much of historical romance into creating a Victorian-era girl gang dealing out justice to people who are extra misogynistic as a backlist to Queen Victoria’s ascension to the throne. I love tracking features MacLean returns to and evolves. For example, her books usually include a high-emotion scene tied to some incredible location—an underwater ballroom, a bench where if you whisper on one end another person sitting on the other hand can hear you perfectly as if you were right next to them. But then she evolves this, so in a book where characters are on the road for much of the book, she deploys a gorgeous puzzle box in exactly the same way she deploys these magical locations and it’s a joy to behold.

I think it would be fascinating to take a romance author’s work—Stringfield suggests that Beverly Jenkins is ripe for this treatment—and dig into not just the texts themselves, but the texts the author might have been reading, the world events happening while they were writing.

I listened to the Fifty Shades of Grey episode of Fated Mates yesterday and in that, Sarah MacLean talks about how romance writers are all reading each other’s works and having a conversation in their books. Her casino series, The Rules of Scoundrels, was a response to J. R. Ward’s Black Dagger Brotherhood. I suspect MacLean’s series influenced Joanna Shupe’s casino book, The Prince of Broadway.

This makes me think of the concept of scenius, which Brian Eno coined but I learned of through Kleon’s work. What can we learn about the creative network present in an author’s life by doing a single author study either individually or as part of a group or class?

What authors’ backlists have you explored? Whose would you like to?